This time next week, it will all be over. Christmas Day and Boxing Day. Finito. Kaputski.
And in just two weeks we will be fully living in a whole new year.
Just quietly, between you and me,
I. Cannot. Freakin’. Wait.
It’s amazing, isn’t it? After all the build-up and the hype of the last few weeks, 2013 will be done ‘n dusted. Over. Buh-bysie. It’s gone so unbelievably fast.
I have approached this festive season from a very different angle this year. I decided way back in August to take the pressure off myself, because I knew that if I didn’t, I would get to now and not be coping very well at all.
It’s not my usual style. I usually thrive under pressure. But I’ve had a bit of a rough trot this year, and I guess I’m old enough and ugly enough to know when it’s time to put my hands up and call a ‘time out’.
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My darling daughter decided in January that she wasn’t going to be a perfect sleep-through-the-nighter anymore. So from the beginning of this year, until just a few weeks ago, I have been permanently sleep deprived. Thanks to her nocturnal shenanigans.
Then, in March I travelled over east to a fabulous health retreat. From which I returned as sick as a dog.
Isn’t it ironic.
Don’t ya think?
What started as an annoying cough, developed into bronchitis and asthma. I then got hit with Influenza A. It all went undiagnosed until I saw doctor number four, who prescribed me a fourth mega-dose of antibiotics and ordered a battery of tests. I saw her earlier this week, and she has finally given my lungs the all clear. I no longer need to rely on two different puffers each day to help me breathe. Yippeee! Result.
Now then, I won’t bore you with the details of the other health issue I’ve been dealing with since October, but suffice to say that us women really do have it tough.
We are brilliantly prepared as tweens for our transition into womanhood. Pregnancy and birth are covered by a ridiculous amount of information and oversharing. But there’s bugger all readily available info out there to prepare us for when we reach the other end of our, ahem, hormonal life.
After another round of tests, I have discovered that I am not yet menopausal, but I am definitely heading that way. My body is preparing for it in ways I didn’t expect or even know about. It’s stressful and it’s very upsetting. Particularly as I still don’t have all the answers, and the medication I’m taking is causing my face to break out like a pubescent teenagers.
Nice. Thanks a lot.
So, ten months of sleep deprivation, plus nine months of struggling to breathe, and now two months of hormonal upheaval (so far), equals one very exhausted and miserable me.
I look like shite. And I feel like shite. And that was loudly confirmed to me on Wednesday when I arrived at the park with my three year old daughter, only to hear my friend’s little girl ask her mummy if I was Kate’s Nanna. Ouch.
Out of the mouths of babes, huh?
I could have cried. In fact, I very nearly did. Right there. In the playground. I wanted to throw myself down on the grass and scream about the injustice of it all.
That’s what I wanted to do. But of course I didn’t.
I felt so rotten. I really did. I am still struggling with it now, to be honest. But I have managed to centre myself and remind myself that what I am dealing with is minor in comparison to a lot of other people. It’s nothing.
And it can be fixed.
All of it.
I just hope Tony doesn’t decide to trade me in on a newer model like he did with one of our old trucks last week. There’s still a few good miles left in this old girl yet. I just need some repairs and maintenance work done to bring me up to scratch.
She’s been put out to pasture. Fingers crossed I’m not next ;o)x
Do you remember Queen Elizabeth gave a speech in 1992 in which she referred to that year as her Annus Horribilis? It’s Latin, and, unsurprisingly, it means ‘horrible year’.
My sense of humour has always been a tad on the immature side, (and I love a good [or bad] bit of toilet humour), and I remember giggling stupidly to myself at the time, that it sounded like she was saying she had a stinky butt.
Hahaha, the Queen’s got a stinky butt.
Yes. I know. Immature much.
Anyhow, I have been reflecting a lot on my 2013 this last week or so, and I have decided that it has definitely been my Annus Horribilis. My Stinky Butt year.
Don’t get me wrong, lots of wonderful things have happened this year too. I am so very blessed in so many ways. But I would be lying if I said I’m not looking forward to drawing a line in the sand under 2013 and taking a flying leap over it into the very shiny and new 2014.
I have already decided that next year is going to be MY year. I haven’t fully worked out the grand master plan of exactly how it’s going to happen yet, but I do know one thing; I will NOT be arriving ANYWHERE in December 2014 feeling or looking like anyone’s bloody Nanna. Thank. You. Very. Much.
Watch this space my lovely BabbleOn’ers. There is An Annus Mirabilis – A Wonderful Year – about to begin.
How was your 2013? Was it stinky butt-like or was it wonderful?
Do you have a grand master plan in place for 2014?
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